How Does Chastity Phone Sex Work?

So you may have seen some of us LDW ladies’ blog posts about male chastity phone sex this month. And since you’ve seen those posts, you may be wondering exactly how does chastity phone sex work? What’s the point of it all if I’m all locked up?!

What is Male Chastity all about?

Some will tell you its about handing over control and others would say its about self-control. Both are technically accurate, but like most things in the phone sex world, it’s all about what you take away from the experience. Once that lock is in place, it takes away one of your basic impulses. From the first click to the last, control of your cock is now in the hands of your chastity Mistress. Whether you’re locked up for fifteen minutes or fifteen months, you presumably have no choice but to obey and that’s one of the hottest experiences you can offer your Mistress. Of course, the key is always “right there” to let you out, but what a disappointment that would be to your Mistress.

How it works

Chastity phone sex works in much the same way all phone sex calls work. You call in, request the lady (or ladies) you’d like to speak with, and are quickly connected to them. A common misconception is that you have to be into chastity to speak to a chastity Mistress, and that’s simply not true. We’re here to help you whether you’ve been locked up before or just heard about chastity fetishes on a random internet rabbit-hole. You don’t have to be experienced to play with tease and delay, and eventually that can lead to full tease and denial. And it’s only one short breath away from full on chastity!

I thought the point was to get off?!

While the truth is phone sex is about the journey, the experience, and not the end result. It’s about exploring your fantasy in-depth with someone in real time. The orgasm at the end isn’t the point, though I know a few Mistresses who enjoy teasing you to the point you will orgasm, even while wearing your cage. It’s an unhurried experience, where you can remain on the phone for as long as you wish, discussing anything and everything without the pressure of wanting to rush through to the “good parts.” Delayed orgasms and denial are heady experiences that should be savored, not rushed!

It all depends on the dynamic between you and the Mistress of your choice. But male chastity phone sex is fun for everyone involved. So if you’d like to give it a try, you know what to do!